Hey,
I have a serious question. I enjoy the winter and spend lots of time out in the cold. This year, I’ve been outside even more than normal. Is there any chance that frequent shrinkage could be permanent? I don't want to do any irreversible damage.
Mikkail

Dear Mikkail,
Rest easy. There is no chance of permanent damage. No matter how cold it gets, your stuff will always warm back up to it's previous size. The human body is amazing. A woman's body can give birth and return to normal size. And as you probably know, men’s parts can both enlarge and shrink and still return to normal size.

Dear Hyapatia,
Guys are concerned about size all the time, but what about women? I mean, we don't want to be too big, you know? What can we do about that?
Melissa

Dear Melissa,
We have Dr. Arnold Kegel to thank. The Kegel muscle is the one you use to stop the flow of pee mid-stream. If you squeeze this muscle and hold it for the count of ten, and then relax, repeating as much as you want, you will thank yourself – and so will your boyfriend. When the Kegel muscle is strong, you’ll have bigger and better orgasms and no one will ever call you “loose.”

Dear Hyapatia,
I know a lot of people will think I’m weird, but sometimes I like to wear women's clothes. Not like in drag or anything, but the underwear that girls have is so much sexier than guys’ stuff. I love the feel of satin on my cock and balls. I don't understand why there isn't nicer stuff for guys. Do you know anywhere I can get some sexy underwear for myself?
Jon

Dear Jon,
You’re not alone in your desire for a sexier choice.  Women appreciate guys who take the time to make themselves sexy for us. Undergear, Freshpair and Bodyaware are a few companies that cater to the sexually aware man. Personally, I enjoy a sexy pair on a guy instead of tighty whities. Sometimes it seems like we spend all the time and energy getting dolled up for dudes, only to have them show up “as is!”